Monday, July 14, 2008

Went out to have lunch with Liz today....SHE TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT OUR LUNCH DATE AND WAS STILL SLEEPING WHILE I RANG HER UP...hahas..she is just LIZ..remember last week day we dated for lunch and she suddenly texted me and told me she couldnt make it....
Kai said "I knew this would happen" hahahs..funny
so me and Kai went to Thai Basil and had lunch and shopped around...

And finally she came, after 2 hours of the actual time we said...hahahs....
Am i angry?Of course not,i felt so happy seeing her and being able to chit chat with her again..
i just met her once after i came back to the gong this year!!!
and we finally got to Gloria Jeans and sat down...talked and talked and talked...
and Gloria accidentally bumped into us...


We used to be class mates last year!!so hard for us to get together again..
everyone changed..(at least their hair colour changed)
and i still look the same..hahas..still kampung!

That's what true friends are right?
I remembered someone ever asked me a question,
How do you keep ur friendship with your friends when you are that far..
and i remembered i answered her "true friendship never change even how far we are apart"
That's what happen. we might not been seeing each other for a year, or years..but once we get together we just talked and talked and talked like we used too,nothing seems to change except somebody dyes their hair,someone has a boyfriend and another has an interesting college life..
but none of this things would ever affect the true friendship between us...

Its hard to get "True Friends",some might say..
Yeah i agree,i didn't say it's an easy thing to finally find a real friend that gets along well with ourselves...and mostly before realising that fact, wee need to go through a lot of obstacles in our friendship.

Some obstacles might be real hard for friends to go through, and some obstacles are even being created by those "too-free-to-do-something-better" or those "envy-you-got-a-friend" people..
Thats where you can see how strong and amazing a real friendship could be..or you can realise the current so called "friend" is not even a friend to you....

People come and go,from a stranger to a "Hi-Bye" friend to aquaintance to friends to closer friends to real friends,some takes a long period, some takes a very short period (where you have that kind of feeling that you guys should have met earlier!).. but there is one thing with is very true, friendship is like a relationship, you argue; you have sweet times, both of you have to put effort in the friendship,or things wouldnt work for anyone...there is no free lunch in the world,there is no such thing as the God drops a true friend down from the heaven for you suddenly... therefore, be patient, like how you treat your family, your lover, true friendships need nurturing too...

To all my friends, i cherish you all...no matter you are a "Hi-Bye" friend or real close friend...
Thank you for being what you are around me...thanks for making my life more beautiful..
I appreciate every single one of you =) loves..xoxo

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